On the farm with his prize bull

Remembering Lars Volstad

1926—2005

A life well lived

Lars was born on the family dairy farm at Austvoll in Sandnes, Norway, to Thorvald and Clara (née Haaland) Volstad. He had an older brother Torger, an infant sister Anna Margrete, and a younger brother Tor. Growing up in Norway during the war made for some interesting stories about stray bombs and assorted mischief against the occupying forces. But Lars' amazing work ethic must have been cemented during those years of hard subsistence. From his youth, he always enjoyed outdoor activities with friends, and when he came of age, he served his time in the army. Following business school he started an excavation business and gave it a good go for several years, but post-war Norway, like much of Europe in the 50's, remained a tough place to make a living.

So he followed his younger brother Tor to Canada in 1956, sailing on the Empress of Scotland and landing at Quebec City. He intended to stay for a few years only and then return to Norway, but the prospects in Canada proved irresistible (never mind the fact that he and his brother had no money, slept in the car, and cooked on the engine block!) Lars eventually found work surveying a new railroad and a new aluminum plant on the Quebec north shore. In Baie Comeau, he met and wooed a young and pretty school teacher named Janine Ayotte, from St. Séverin, Quebec. (Janine initially thought that he was too young for her; only later did she learn that he was 6 years her senior!) Wedding bells soon followed: marrying Janine was "the best thing I ever did", as he recently told one of his grandkids. In 1958 the first son, Mark, was born.

In 1962 the young family moved to Toronto, which at the time was experiencing a construction boom. Among the projects that occupied him for the next 8 years were office buildings at 16 King St. East, 400 University Ave., and the Bloor/Yonge subway station. His talent and hard work were rewarded with promotions to Project Engineer and Project Superintendent. It was during this busy period in his life that his second son, Eric, and daughter, Clara, were born.

In 1970, Lars decided that the daily commuting was taking too much time from his family life, and returned to his farming roots by purchasing a dairy farm in St. Tite, Quebec, not far from Janine's birthplace. Within a year, however, he realized that his calling was still in heavy construction, and he found work in Ottawa.

In 1972, the family moved to London, Ontario, where Lars was Project Manager for the construction of City Centre, a 3-building complex in the heart of the Forest City.

The family's next stop was Saint John, New Brunswick, where a series of construction projects enabled the family to settle down for 12 years. Lars superintended the building of Brunswick Square, Market Square and the Saint John Regional Hospital.

When the heavy construction work eventually dried up in Saint John, Lars was offered major projects on Prince Edward Island building UPEI's Atlantic Veterinary College and Revenue Canada's Summerside Tax Center. Between these two projects he superintended construction of the beautiful Blue Cross Centre in Moncton, New Brunswick. He finally retired in 1992 at age 67.

Wherever Lars lived and worked, he made lasting friendships. Looking back on his career, he told us he was grateful to have worked with so many good people, and grateful for the many opportunities to be a mentor to younger leaders in the industry.

Lars had a rare and wonderful combination of intellect and practical ability, reflected in his lifelong enjoyment of a variety of hobbies. He was the first president of the Sandnes Philatelic Club. He was a talented woodworker, and crafted a number of handsome pieces of furniture that grace the house to this day. He taught himself English and French and was a voracious reader, as well as a particularly good writer. He loved to debate with anyone who could keep up with him on a wide range of historical and political topics. He had a life-long passion for his garden, which he continued to tend in recent years even through failing health. His vegetables won horticultural awards, and we enjoyed his bumper crops of strawberries, raspberries, currants and gooseberries. When his children left home and could no longer enjoy them fresh, Janine made wonderful jams to send to them.

Lars was a generous man, always glad to share his time and resources with friends and strangers alike. He had great respect for the work of the Salvation Army and the War Amps in Canada. In his own neighbourhood, he spent countless hours volunteering with Scouts Canada and the Gondola Point Recreation Committee in the 1970's and 80's. He was a driving force in the construction of the recreation centre there, and was a superb mentor to the boys of the 1st Gondola Point Venturer Company. More recently, he served with the Red Cross Meals on Wheels programme for seniors in the Moncton area. Through the local Multicultural Association, he worked with new immigrant families, helping them settle in the area.

Lars cared for his family above all else. He always encouraged his children to develop our own interests and careers, and was very proud of our achievements. He taught us to be independent, yet we knew that we could count on him at any time for any support that we needed. He was a man who expressed his beliefs through his actions. His greatest legacy to us is the example of his honesty and his compassion for others.

Lars passed away peacefully in his home with Janine, Mark, Eric, and Clara close by his side. We are eternally grateful for the blessing he continues to be in our lives.

Lars Volstad was predeceased by his parents Thorvald and Clara, his infant sister Anna Margrete, and his brothers Torger and Tor. He leaves his wife Janine Ayotte Volstad (school teacher, retired, in Dieppe, New Brunswick); son Mark (web developer, with wife Lylah and children Bruce and Angela, in Kentucky); son Eric (military pilot officer, with wife Alysia and daughters Amanda and Kristen, in Quebec); daughter Clara (registered nurse, with husband Mark Butland and sons Alex and Evan, in North Dakota); his aunt Tora Hove Solli in Norway; and many beloved relatives and friends in Norway and Canada.

Images from his lifetime

Lars Volstad as a young man in Norway

Lars Volstad as a young man in Norway

Norway is a beautiful and proud country, and Lars always loved to return there

Norway is a beautiful and proud country, and Lars always loved to return there

Thorvald & Clara Vølstad with sons Torger, Lars, and Tor

Thorvald & Clara Vølstad with sons Torger, Lars, and Tor

The family farm at Austvoll, Høyland (now in Sandnes), where Lars was born

The family farm at Austvoll, Høyland (now in Sandnes), where Lars was born

A page from his Karakterbok (school report card)

A page from his "Karakterbok" (school report card)

On the farm with his prize bull

On the farm with his prize bull

In occupied Norway during World War II, people needed a German pass like this

In occupied Norway during World War II, people needed a German pass like this

Fishing in Norway

Fishing in Norway

Business school photo 1
Business school photo 2

Lars graduated from business school in Norway and made good use of that education throughout his career

Like all young men, he served his time in the military

Like all young men, he served his time in the military

In Liverpool, on the first trip to Canada

In Liverpool, on the first trip to Canada

His Norwegian passport
His Norwegian passport, second page

His Norwegian passport, bearing his Canadian Landed Immigrant stamp of 19 April 1956.  Lars later became a proud Canadian citizen, but always kept his connections with friends and family back in Norway

Janine and Lars cutting the cake on 17 August, 1957, in Janine's home town of St Séverin, Quebec

Janine and Lars cutting the cake on 17 August, 1957, in Janine's home town of St Séverin, Quebec

At work in the bush, in northern Quebec

At work in the bush, in northern Quebec

A bumper crop in Hauterive, Quebec

A bumper crop in Hauterive, Quebec

One of many visits back to Norway; this one with first son, Mark

One of many visits back to Norway; this one with first son, Mark

At a seed farm near Toronto, with Mark and Eric

At a seed farm near Toronto, with Mark and Eric

On the day of daughter Clara's baptism

On the day of daughter Clara's baptism

With Eric in the garden in Clarkson, near Toronto

With Eric in the garden in Clarkson, near Toronto

Like Lars, the kids had a wide variety of interests

Like Lars, the kids had a wide variety of interests - and we still do, in large part due to our dad's great support and enthusiasm

Saint John Regional Hospital

From his humble roots as a survey rod man in northern Quebec, Lars worked his way up through the ranks in the heavy construction business in Ontario, New Brunswick, and Prince Edward Island.  Among many other projects, he superintended construction of the Saint John Regional Hospital...

Saint John's Market Square

...Saint John's Market Square...

Charlottetown's Atlantic Veterinary College

...Charlottetown's Atlantic Veterinary College...

Moncton's Blue Cross Centre

...and Moncton's Blue Cross Centre

A happy and proud grandfather!

A happy and proud grandfather!

Forever young at heart

Forever young at heart.  Lars, helping test-drive the wagon he built for his youngest grandson

Enjoying retirement in Dieppe, New Brunswick

Enjoying retirement in Dieppe, New Brunswick

Christmas, 2004. The Volstad family.

Christmas, 2004.  Front: Lars Volstad and Janine Ayotte Volstad, married 17 August 1957. Standing, from left: son Eric with wife Alysia (née Sharp) and daughters Kristen (8) and Amanda (11); son Mark with wife Lylah (née Arpon) and children Angela (11) and Bruce (23); and daughter Clara with husband Mark Butland and sons Alex (10) and Evan (7).  Dad was tremendously proud of his family.

Janine and Lars, married 47 years. This is our last photo of Dad, taken just before he passed away.

Janine and Lars, married 47 years.  This is our last photo of Dad, taken just before he passed away.

In loving remembrance

We said goodbye to Dad at his funeral on Monday, 7 March 2005, at Chartersville Funeral Home in Dieppe, New Brunswick. Thank you to all who joined us on this very special occasion.

Please make any donations to the Salvation Army, or to the charity of your choice.

His friends and relatives write:

"He lived an impressive life, one to be proud of, as you all are. I'm sorry for your loss, but his special qualities will continue to live in his children."

"We shall all feel the loss of this terrific husband, father and friend."

"I will always keep excellent souvenirs of uncle Lars - such a warm and generous person. He took my kids around his garden and showed them the secrets of vegetables."

"He was an amazing man! I’ll never forget the time he took [us] to the top of Brunswick Square in the “High Speed Elevator”, while it was under construction. That was cool."

"He...stepped up, went straight to the fridge and brought back a jar of pickled herring he had prepared himself - with obvious pride. Without asking me, he served me a piece of it. Now, I really had not expected that, and I was telling myself that I should have kept my mouth shut! Then, I figured I could not afford to look like a coward, and I decided I could not refuse it. I ate it, and much to my surprise it was quite good, although I must admit I would not have it for breakfast!"

"The loss of your father is strongly felt by us...he was a father's figure to us."

"I can see clearly the almost-constant smile that Lars wore... He was a good, kind, competent man, who I enjoyed meeting and working with."

"Je découvre encore cet homme merveilleux. Il demeure dans nos coeurs et nos pensées. On ne peux oublier son sourire et son charme."

"...he certainly always seemed like a 'cool father'... As an member of the 1st Gondola Point Venturer Company I will always remember his affinity for volunteering and how he was quick to assist when required."

"I remember Lars' exceptional work on the construction of our building. The Atlantic Veterinary College is really standing the 'test of time' and is a lasting testament to his construction skills."

"...he lived enough for 2 or 3 people"

"...he met the news [of his cancer] peacefully and accepted the facts of life and death. I sincerely hope that I am able to show as much grace when my time comes."

"Uncle Lars and Tante Janine have represented hospitality and generosity for me - two important ideals for me."

"Lars was a wonderful man whose spirit was obvious to all who met him."

"...he had made a contribution to the betterment of mankind. In the end, that is what really matters."